The last but not the least different culture between Chinese and Western countries from the point of love and marriage is the moral outlook。 Chinese people are always limited in the morality, and it is shameful to porce in the old days in China, Chinese in the traditional education cannot seek to their own true need。 However, people who are educated by Western culture can seek to what they really want without the moral limit。
Western Love in our view is warm, open, romantic, and Chinese love is relatively conservative。 So the way Westerners express love is particularly direct。 Westerners are using straightforward language, with concrete action to express love。 For Chinese people, it is not easy to express their love with the three words “I love you”。 Young men and women always hesitate to express their love to the people they like。 If both sides are good friends, they even cannot be friends any more once they are refused by the other, because they may think it is shameful and embarrassed to face them。 Only in many pop songs and movie dramas, male and female protagonist twists would say “I love you” timidly。 How difficult to say love from their mouth!
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