However, in my paper, people may find the struggle and suffering among marriages easily and get some enlightenment of love and marriage。

3。 Marital status of three generations

3。1 Tom and Poland widow’s marriage

For the Brown family, the first generation of people, rainbow simply meant a moment's peace。 So, here was Rainbow also implies the failure of the first generation。 Tom dreamed out of the current situation, to pursue new things, but the gap between ideals and reality made him difficult to balance, so heavy drinker but they can not solve the problem。 Lydia was a descendant of the polish nobility, middle class。 Her education was far higher than the UK-generation farming family of Tom’s。 Two people’s experiences difference eventually formed a contradiction between the original Tom and calm Lydia。 So we can see, Tom and Lydian’s marriage was not successful, only to maintain their marriage relationship。 Tom put all the love and attention to his stepdaughter Anna and he never went to his son。 When someone told him that baby was a boy, he also suddenly felt happy。 But he did not want to be close to the child, he was his father enough。 Their marriage had its problems, and even the language barrier。 So they basically had zero communication。 No verbal communication was no exchange of the soul。 They were like two strangers with sex relation who lived together。 Lawrence believed harmonious relations between the sexes was not only reflected in the mutual adaptation of both men and women, but also reflected in the separate self-holding。 Tom and Lydia’s independence was not based on the spirit and soul of deep understanding and knowledge on, but on the strangeness between them。 Their independence was built on top of each other’s strangeness, lack of spiritual and telepathic and fit。 So their “happiness” was a low level。 Titus’ type of warm family first generation of the pursuit was successful but not ideal。

3。2 Anna and his nephew Will’s marriage

If the first generation of strange rainbow had been the spirit of reason and bloody conflicts in life, then began to dim。 Then to the second generation of Anna and her husband, this conflict became more apparent。 Anna was a rebellious woman, she grew possessive and intent to rule。 She looked down Lydia, because of the unfortunate woman, who was a inferior person。 she hated of Tom, because he took her mother, in addition, her attitude towards animals was also very fierce and very imperious, never extra mercy, just across the fence to their orders。This innate pride made her childhood a cherished ideal。 She wanted to be a lady with self-esteem of its own, out of the humble, and out of the mediocre。 

In this case, Will, engrossed in a medieval church architecture and icon appear sculpted young men。 He showed Anna a completely strange and vast cultural world, a kind of charismatic spiritual world。 So, eager to extricate themselves from the stagnant life of Anna, she fell desperately in love with him。 However newlywed, she felt disillusioned。 Because Will was a typical person who was completely alienated because of rational Western civilization。 He became fascinated by medieval Gothic architecture, and had a blind singular passion to religion。 In addition, he was fascinated with naked physical contact。Between the physical world and the mysterious invisible world of the senses, the lack of a vibrant, healthy mentality to maintain。 For his wife, he only saw her as a sexual object to vent。 Naturally, this can not be tolerated by Anna who was in the nature of self-esteem but aloof temperament hot。 This short marks the few days before their wedding would take shape。 When Anna got up to clean the room where was ready to parlor, Will they got angry for no reason, because he had to be met from the wonderful sexual experience。 It was said that Anna is light of the soul, Will senses darkness。论文网