So, Anna and Will did not create a very harmonious relationship between husband and wife。 Instead, Anna contempt of Will’s religious piety of the heart, despise his woodcut hobby。 Among their lives, there were contradicts everywhere。 In this section, Anna was the most surprising move of naked dancing, which was a manifestation that Anna wanted to escape from reality。 After that Anna and Will’s marriage began to deteriorate further。

3。3 Ursula and Kerensky love

Ursula Brown was the third generation of the text on behalf of the family, the daughter of Anna and Will。 If Lawrence through the second generation continued to struggle and even compromise, reproduces the image of social change for women to bring pain and confusion, then the third generation of women Ursula life quest was reflected Lawrence’s understanding of relation between men and women in a specific age。 Ursula was willing to explore the unknown world and was eager to learn and the Bible when she was a child and have more strong interest when she grew older。 She hoped that she can achieve her self-realization through her efforts。

Ursula’s boyfriend Kerensky and Will were different, he was a complete alienation in the capitalist society, a not assertive, non-social machine。 His blood is in a kind of blind patriotic fervor。 He went to Africa participating in colonial wars, eager to come back later when the colonial rulers of India。 This was on contrary Ursula who had envy of his aristocratic lineage, manhood the brighter side before。 He put the only way to maintain the secular feelings as marriage。 He was dependent on Ursula like a child。 However, Ursula yearned for outside the world, hoping to find a place at the table from the traditional male-centric world, for which she was trying to learn, self-employment, actively participate in the dual exploring the spiritual world and physical world。 Because she did not have to rely on the previous generation of people feel to live。 She learned to use the thinking, knowledge to arm herself。 And this great spiritual strength brightened her inner world。

Their ideological differences can not be eliminated, so the form of their love as paint like glue, but they lacked the fundamental blend of soul。 During the day life, his dull personality brought out more and more obviously。 He asked her to marry him to go to India, after being refused, he immediately broke down the spirit。 His personality and masculinity became increasingly weak, narrow。 In this way, he gave the failure to meet the spiritual aspects of his flesh off elimination significance。

4。 Marriage difference of three generations

4。1The confused marriage first generation 

From the text of the Brown time, the Western industrial civilization had been greatly invaded the traditional agricultural economy and people’s living environment and harmonious gender honest life is greatly damaged。 In this destruction, the earliest changes were those women。 As stated in the text, “the men standing in the back overlooking the garden。”（Cai 2） The woman is standing in front of the house “toward male-dominated and created world view。”(Cai 3) This seemed to have hinted that this ancient pastoral land would be explored the world toward by another batch of women。 If Tom belonged to the former, then Lydia belonged to latter features。 In their daily life, Lydia finally assimilated Tom with spiritual word, resulting in “her every move, all at once on the brow of a frown is signal and suggestive” so in order to “let him and her spend a farm time from birth into the dead back to life the magic of the process, and felt an unprecedented inexpressible meet ”。

Only because the two species had a tendency to step sober in character, they laureled madding crowd。 So as to avoid further outbreaks of potentially virtually gunpowder。 Therefore, it was concluded that this generation relations in the era of Western society had begun to loose and big change of the status of men in front of women and a half type of spiritual civilization half began to shake, the harmonious relationship between people had begun to be severe war。文献综述