Teacher’s lights are characterized by their unique authenticity, richness, and sense of hint. During the delivery of knowledge, teachers directly face students’ eyes instead of their ears, so teachers have to make eye-contact with the students and express their feelings in a right way. An educator once said: “Lights with love should be used to embrace students’ heart.” As teachers, we should communicate with the students with the art of lights effectively since pupils are mischievous and easily distracted in class.
Particularly, pupils do not have good psychological endurance. Thus, we need to control their behaviors with our lights to ensure an orderly class. Besides, pupils show great respect to their teachers and they need to be praised by the teachers as much as possible. Therefore, we need to set great store by every student, showing our love and care for them with lights.
English is a very difficult subject for pupils because it is their second language. And for most pupils, they do not have a well-matched second or foreign language environment so that they cannot learn it as smoothly as Chinese. Therefore, we need to deal with everyone’s problems with good patience during the teaching process. We have to give them hints and nod our heads to their progress with lights. To some extent, lights are the bridge of exchanging ideas, so teachers must learn to use the art of lights in communicating with students in English schooling. By doing this can we achieve effective communication and do teaching a favor so that good relationship between teachers and students can be developed and students can be controlled to behave well. Apart from this, the effectiveness of teaching and teaching feedback can be accomplished.来*自-优=尔,论:文+网www.youerw.com
Chapter 2 The Basic Characteristics of Teachers’ Eye Contact
2.1 Authenticity
The eye contact has the characteristic of authenticity. According to the research of Darwin, Hayuth, Barmch, etc., the change of peoples’ pupil is the activation sign of nervouscentralis system, which means the variation of peoples’ pupil is affected by the cerebral activity. Although duplicity could come into play when it comes to the language expression, eyes itself show the real thoughts authentically. And the shrinkable tough iris around the pupil can control the variation size of pupil. This kind of work is operated by involuntary muscle, therefore we can’t control the size of our pupils freely. As a result, the variation of pupils reflects the real thoughts when we deal with different visual images, the pupil won’t lie.
At a musical lesson in a kindergarten, two children have argued to be the chorus leader, and other classmates booed together. The teacher dealt the situation with coaxing and education. But when the class is over, the principal criticized the teacher for blaming a girl called Lin Jiawen who was the naughtiest in the class. As a matter of fact, the teacher didn’t blame her; she just glared at the girl because of anger. The heart of children is fragile, just as the teacher wrote in her diary: although I am a teacher with three years children education experiences, a young girl can still feel my slight moods change.