3。2 Similarities in women' concepts of marriage

3。2。1 The delay of marriage ages

Although there are lots of distinctions between China and western country in love and marriage, such as the different ideas or different notion, there are still many things in common between Chinese and western females’ love and marriage in many aspects。 The first is the delay of marriage ages。 The Chinese usually got married between 20 to 26 years old before, but now their marriage ages delay to 23 to 30 years old, or even later。(Gong 48) In the west, young men and women were able to delay marriage age, now that kind of marriage is one of the few examples of a teenager。 First of all, people choose to wait longer to get married, because they want to determine the relationships between the two inpiduals further。 They want to achieve a perfect relationship as far as possible, because the relationships between their parents may be unstable and eventually result in porce。 Secondly, because of the improvement of people’s ideological and cultural quality, many youth expect to make great progress in his career before marriage。 Some other people feast the freedom and happiness of being single, and don’t want to be bounded by the chains of marriage。 The last point is that the employment pressure, the development pressure, and the pressure of the material are becoming more and more stressed。 People don’t want to get married until the economic conditions are ripe。