摘要根据埃里克森人生发展理论，大学生正处于成年早期，主要矛盾为亲密对孤独，合理恋爱观念的树立，良好的恋爱关系的形成，恰当自我认知的构建对个体人生发展意义深远。交互作用分析（TA）理论较为清晰的展现了原生家庭对子女成长发展尤其是婚恋关系的影响，该理论在临床方面已得到了较好的继承发扬。82586

本文依据TA和三元心理学相关理论，以科尔本的七种父母类型为分类依据，通过在江苏地区十所大学发放三千五百份问卷，对回收得到的数据进行统计学处理和分析，定量研究七种父母类型所代表的原生家庭对大学生性格形成、恋爱观念、恋爱对象选择、恋爱相关能力等的联系。本文将引入马尔科夫模型，重点探究自恋型的父母、专制型父亲配受难型母亲、抚育型父母这几种较为典型的家庭模板，对子女在爱自己、相信爱情、爱他人三种能力上的影响。本文的研究成果将为当代大学生的情感相关问题解决提供新思路，通过对父母类型的测试和分析，推测其子女在三种爱方面的能力，从而更好得发现和解决恋爱中双方问题，也有助于引导大学生树立正确的恋爱观，为当代大学生的恋爱问题提出参考建议。

毕业论文关键字：大学生恋爱问题；调查；统计分析；马尔科夫模型

Abstract   According to Erickson's theory of life development, college students are in the early stage of adulthood。The main contradiction is the intimacy vs loneliness。The establishment of love concept, the formation of a good relationship, and the construction of proper self cognition have great significance to the development of inpidual life。 The theory of interaction analysis (TA) clearly shows the influence of the primary family on the growth and development of children, especially the relationship between love and marriage。The theory has been well developed in clinical practice。 

  This paper based on the theory of TA and three elements of psychological related theories,statistically analyzed the data collected from ten universities in Jiangsun which three thousand and five hundred questionnaires were distributed to, according to the classification of seven types of parents of Cole。 The paper will quantitative study the connection between native families represented by the seven parent types and college students' personality formation, love concept, love object selection, love related ability and so on。 This paper will introduce the Markov model, focus on the exploration of the narcissism parents, autocratic father with good mother, tending parents these typical family templates, and their influence on three kinds of their children's ability: to love themselves, to believe in love and to love others。 The research results of this paper will provide new ideas on the emotional problems of contemporary college students。 By testing and analyzing the types of parents, the paper will speculate on their children’s ability to love in three ways, in order to find and solve the problems in the relationship between the two sides better, and help to guide college students to establish a correct view of love, put forward the reference suggestion for the contemporary university student’s love question。

Keywords: college students' love problem; investigation; statistical analysis; Markoff model

目  录

第一章 绪论 1

1。1 研究背景 1

1。2 研究现状与发展 2

1。3 理论基础 2

1。3。1 数理理论 2

1。3。2 心理学理论 7

第二章 研究假设